Broken heart

Unless you’re in search of relationship help or here because you’re having a tough time getting over a breakup it would be best for you to move on. This post is targeted only for individuals who are sick and tired of being hurt and are ready to do what it takes to end this painful issue. If you have recently broken up with someone and want them back, or find yourself getting broken up with often with you need this information.

Having your heart broken hurts!

I’ve been there myself plenty of times my last breakup was beyond awful I could literally feel my heart breaking. That breakup was the inspiration for making this site in the first place. It was during this time I made a personal commitment to myself to make damn sure I never had to feel that way again. I’m talking about the trouble eating, depression, anxiety, loneliness, self doubt and sleeping… Forget about it. The best analogy I came up with for describing the pain of a fresh breakup is that it is akin to being half frozen in a lake, at night the Ice Weasels come. (and they are hungry)

Are you insane?

Albert Einstein once said “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results”. Think about this quote for a second and ask yourself, does this quote apply to the way handle yourself in relationships?

Okay then, this is the part where I’m supposed to tell you that it’s not your fault that your ex is just a jerk and doesn’t know what he or she’s lost but I’m not going to do that. I’m not going to do that because if you’re the type of person who’s browsing websites like this searching for a magic pill to cure your ailing heart you need to hear this. It’s your fault, I’ll repeat that once more it’s your fault Yes, I am telling you right now that during some point of your last relationship you started behaving in a way that pushed your mate away from you.

Hang on here I’m going to take it up a notch…

Since this has been such a problem in your life that you have turned to the Internet for solution I’m also going to guess this is not the first time this has happened to you. I am a really nice guy, you might be a nice guy too, or maybe you’re a nice girl. Unfortunately that is likely part of the problem, I’ll explain why in a minute. You have probably noticed yourself that it seems as if you have to be a jerk or a floozy to keep a mate. It does not make any sense at all but you see it every day.

It’s not because they’re jerks or floozies

In spite of being jerks or floozies these types of people by default typically sidestep most of the inappropriate behavior that will cause a significant other to run away. It doesn’t make any sense at all but that’s the way it is. It’s a fact people would rather be with jerks or floozies then with people (YOU) who unknowingly short-circuit the attraction mechanism. I’m not telling you you need to be a jerk or a floozie to keep a mate, but you do need to borrow a few characteristics that they inherently posses.

Relationships are psychological warfare

If you don’t know what you’re doing you don’t stand a chance. If you’re lucky enough even to get a boy or girl friend at all the odds of you keeping them are virtually nil. Sooner or later your mate will lose attraction for you and someone else who understands the correct way to behave will step in and replace you. You will find yourself once again alone in front of your computer looking at websites like this one searching for a Band-Aid for your broken relationship.

Make a commitment and make a change

If you are tired of being used and walked on you need to change something. You really need to educate yourself on the inner workings of attraction. If you cannot recognize and understand what you’re doing wrong you can’t ever hope to fix it. Click how to get over a broken heart for more information and a short presentation. If you’re still in a situation where you feel there is hope for you to get back with your ex you need to check it out.

Still talking to them? YOU’RE ALREADY screwing it up and you don’t even know it

Have you been calling or texting your x? Maybe you have even been hanging out in the same places hoping to get a chance to talk to them? If so…Tell me, how’s that working out for you? Here is a top tip; STOP! You are making it worse believe me you don’t know what you are doing…yet